Marie A. “Angie” Havermale

Marie A. (Angie) Havermale was born December 2, 1946, to Charles A. Crnic I and Rachel E. Crnic in Kirksville, MO. She married Stephen T. (Steve) Havermale on July 9, 1975.
Angie grew up in the Croation neighborhood of Kirksville, MO, next door to the family corner grocery, with her parents and her siblings in the “Old House”. She attended Mary Immaculate Grade School and graduated from Kirksville High School. After graduation, Angie became a nurse (LPN), was married for a short time and then set about working and supporting her son. She was a dedicated nurse at many of the health care facilities located in and around Kirksville. She was mainly employed at the emergency room in the local hospital, but working several jobs as a single mom to make ends meet.

She was very close to her brothers and sisters and remained so until her death.
Angie met Steve while he was working on the communication system at the hospital in Kirksville. He dropped a wrench from the radio tower while she was leaving work just to get her attention, luckily it missed her! The near miss with the wrench did get her attention and they were later married. Angie moved to Quincy to begin her life with Steve. She continued working as a nurse, again in the ER, at St. Mary’s and as an EMT and REMT and was an EMT instructor for a time. In her ensuing years, she worked in various office positions including Office Manager at the company her husband founded, Alarm Systems Inc., working with her husband and son. When her daughters were older, she became a dedicated stay at home Mom and worked from home.

The greatest joy in Angie’s life was her entire family, but most important to her were her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.
She spent hours researching any issue that might impact her family and always had volumes of information if needed. She was a resource for current events from her 24/7 watching of Fox News. She was a fiercely protective Mother, Grandmother and Great Grandmother. She made her “rounds” by driving by her families’ homes to make sure all were safe many times a week, just because “it was on the way.”

Angie is survived by her children: Paul (Pam Eberhardt) Havermale, Amanda (Tim) Doellman and Chrissy (Jim) Graszer.
Her grandchildren: Gregory (Katie) Havermale, Matthew (Lauren) Havermale, Noah Doellman, Hunter Doellman, Xander Graszer and Liam Graszer.
Her great grandchildren: Hudson Havermale, Hayden Havermale, Jayden Havermale and Adaline Havermale. Her siblings: Marsha Crnic, Tereza (Kent) Robinson, Charles A Crnic II and Tom Crnic, and her nieces, nephews, and other family by marriage.

Angie was preceded in death by her husband Steve, her parents, her sister Charolotte Conkin and her grandson Bradley Havermale with whom she had a special bond.

Angie passed after a short battle with small cell lung cancer and congestive heart failure. She passed away on Tuesday, September 12, 2023 in Blessing Hospital.
She was a woman who spoke her mind and lived by her own rules up until her end. She will be missed.

Funeral services will be on Saturday, September 16, 2023, at 8:30 a.m. at Duker & Haugh Funeral Home followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at Blessed Sacrament Parish at 9:00 a.m. with Fr. Tom Meyer officiating. Interment will be in Calvary Cemetery. The visitation will be Friday from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Duker & Haugh.
Memorials may be made to Blessed Sacrament Church.


  1. Michelle Baucom Keller on September 14, 2023 at 9:10 am

    So sorry to hear of this loss. Amanda Doellman. You and your family are on my thoughts and prayers. Hugs all around.

    • Amanda Doellman on September 19, 2023 at 9:36 pm

      Thank you!

  2. Dwight & Barb Seeley on September 14, 2023 at 11:50 am

    Our deepest sympathy to you and your family over the loss of your mother and her amazing legacy.

    • Paul Havermale on September 18, 2023 at 8:55 pm

      Thank you very much.

  3. Becky ( Clowers) Moore on September 14, 2023 at 1:48 pm

    Paul & Family, so sorry to read about Angie. She would always stop me at Ayerco to just say hi many times. She was a woman that always had a smile as she walked by anyone. Your family was lucky to have her..

    • Paul Havermale on September 18, 2023 at 8:55 pm

      Thank you!

  4. Greg and LeXze Mann on September 14, 2023 at 2:08 pm

    We are so very sorry for your loss Paul and Pam. I loved reading her obituary. Our prayers are with all of you.

    • Paul Havermale on September 18, 2023 at 8:56 pm

      Thanks, she was certainly one of a kind.

  5. Fran Adolfs on September 14, 2023 at 2:49 pm

    So sorry to hear of her passing. Knew your mom and dad working at QND. Great people.

    • Amanda Doellman on September 19, 2023 at 9:37 pm

      Thank you!

  6. Richard and Julie Elsenpeter on September 14, 2023 at 4:44 pm

    So sorry for your loss of your beloved mom. May our prayers and thoughts be with you and your family!

    • Paul Havermale on September 18, 2023 at 9:00 pm


  7. Carolyn Waterkotte on September 14, 2023 at 5:08 pm

    Angie was a amazing Lady, and Steve was a wonderful friends to our family..missed seeing him at QND sports events and I really got to know your Mother during our time together at Grief Share…Prayers said for your family.

    • Paul Havermale on September 18, 2023 at 9:00 pm

      Thank you!

  8. Jan ewalt on September 14, 2023 at 7:14 pm

    Angie was a sweet loving lady, I had been praying for her but God had a different plan. Prayers are now with her family.. Jan. “Toot” and Casey .

    • Amanda Doellman on September 19, 2023 at 9:38 pm

      Thank you!

  9. Lauri Eisenberg on September 14, 2023 at 10:10 pm

    Paul and Pam- So sorry to read about Angie. I worked with Angie at St. Mary’s in medical records. Boy, did we have some good times! Hugs and prayers in the days ahead.

    • Paul Havermale on September 18, 2023 at 9:01 pm

      Thank you!

  10. Diana and Jeff Hirt on September 14, 2023 at 11:30 pm

    Paul and Pam, our deepest sympathies and continued prayers during this entire year and beyond. I will always remember your mom and dad at Matt’s soccer games in Canton.

    • Paul Havermale on September 18, 2023 at 8:53 pm

      Thank you!

  11. Julia (Piner) Askew on September 15, 2023 at 9:00 am

    Paul and family – so sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. I remember your family from Monroe street years ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

    • Paul Havermale on September 18, 2023 at 8:53 pm

      Thank you very much. We certainly have fond memories of Monroe Street!

  12. Judy howerton on October 9, 2023 at 9:36 am

    Just learned of Angie’s passing. A long time friend and classmate. Will share the sad news with the Class of 64. Also a neighbor on Centennial Street
    Judy Kehrer Howerton.

    • Amanda Doellman on October 11, 2023 at 4:21 pm

      Thank you!

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