Roger Deming

Roger Deming, age 62, of Quincy, died on Monday, May 11, 2020 in his home. He was born on June 21, 1957 in Quincy, IL the son of Kenneth and Lucille (Tournear) Deming. Roger was a 1975 graduate of Quincy Senior High School. He married Mindy McKinstry on July 7, 2007. She survives. Roger was an Appliance Specialist at Lowes. Roger loved music and was a DJ and did karaoke for many years.

He was an avid St. Louis Cardinals fan. Loved Nascar and his many trips to Talladega with friends. He loved camping at Whispering Oaks Campground. He was the best husband, father, PaPa, and friend. Roger never met a stranger. He always had a smile on his face and a hug to give. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

In addition to his wife Mindy, Roger is also survived by: FIVE CHILDREN: Mallory Deming of Quincy; Melissa Skinner of Paloma; Meghan Dedert (Chad) of Quincy; Michelle Turpin (Jason) of Coatsburg, IL; and Jason Deming (Alicia) of Palmyra. TEN GRANDCHILDREN: Liam, Dominic, Jocelyn, Londyn, Presleigh, Wyatt, Hayley, MacKenzie, Clayton, and Caydence. FOUR SIBLINGS: Gary Tournear, Dennis Deming (Tina), Gerald Deming (Sheila) and Carol Cegas (Don). IN-LAWS: John and Elaine McKinstry BROTHER-IN-LAW: Jerrod McKinstry Numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and other relatives also survive.

Roger was preceded in death by his parents and 1 sister: Kay Brown

Cremation rites will be accorded. Private graveside services will be held at Woodland Cemetery. Memorials may be made to help pay for Mallory’s educational fund. The Duker & Haugh Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

30 Comments

  1. Dawn and Eric Peters on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Mindy, so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  2. James Deming on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    So sorry for your loss. Roger was a very nice guy. He will be greatly missed. Best cousin ever.

  3. Amy Smith on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Praying that the God of all comfort will surely comfort you. Mindy, so sorry for your loss.

  4. Robyn Goodwin-Johnson on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with all of Roger’s family. I am so saddened to hear this news. I spent a lot of time at the Deming house when they lived on 12th St. in Quincy. They always made me feel like a member of the family.

  5. Dusty and Cindy Hogan on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Sorry for your loss, he will be greatly missed!

  6. Beth Kerr on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    I met Roger when I started at Lowe’s in 2015. During my 2 years there, he was one of the nicest kindest coworkers: always had a smile, even if he was having a bad day; always kind and had a funny story,; always tender hearted with a kind word. The world is a sadder place without his light. Prayers for you all.

  7. Kelsey Markley on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    I’m very sorry for your loss. I met Roger when I worked at Lowe’s several years ago. He will be dearly missed. He was a great listener and always knew how to make people around him smile. He always had the best stories too! Praying for peace for your family during this time.

  8. Connie HowserHp on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Prayers for the family. We are so sorry for your loss.

  9. TeresaVanMeter on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Many Prayers go out to Mindy and the Family! Roger was a Boss at Honey-Maid Donuts that ended up a Friend! Years later we Both ended up at Lowe’s! I’m in Shock as much as Anyone! Prayers to you ALL! HE was Awesome!

  10. JUdy Echternkamp on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Roger worked for my husband at Honey Maid Donuts and he was a valued loyal employee. Hopefully Roger and Jim are making donuts again together. My sympathy to the family.

  11. Sara Nieders on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Roger was my first Boss, way back in the day. At A & W root beer. Nice guy. So sorry for your loss

  12. Rick & Rhonda Griggs on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Mindy so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family. He will be missed.

  13. Robert nall on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Roger could have been the poster child for the campgrounds always a big smile, love this guy, he will be missed by all

  14. April Cline on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    I met Roger when he delivered for Baish and Skinner. We saw each other again when he started working at Lowe’s. He always was a really nice guy. He always told me about his family and asked about mine. I will truly miss his smiling face. I will be praying for his family and friends. So sorry for your loss. April Cline

  15. Wendy Cookson Lillard on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    We are going to miss Roger–Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this trying time. Will miss you cousin.

  16. Sherry Parsons on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss Roger was my brother-in-law for years and years and a great friend and always a smile he will be missed prayers for the family

  17. Mark Mester on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Mindy,sorry for your loss. Always enjoyed talking with Roger. I’m sure he will be greatly missed. Mark Mester

  18. David &Chris Horman on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    So sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you

  19. Steve and Gayle Tenhouse on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Our condolences go out to Mindy and the rest of the Family. Gone way too soon. Will miss ya Cousin.

  20. Teresa Myers Pickle on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Melissa, I am so sorry to read of your dad’s death, we went to high school together! Such a small world, he was always so nice in high school and unfortunately we lost contact with each other after graduation. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

  21. Dawn Hessling on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Sending Thoughts and prayers to you and your family Mindy. So sorry to hear about Roger What a great guy !! He Will be missed by all !!

  22. Stacie McColez on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Our parent’s were good friends. Have many fond memories with the Deming family. Roger had a never ending smile. Sorry for you earthly loss.

  23. Jason Woodward & Melissa Woodward on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Roger was a great guy and coworker and he will be missed. Our sympathies go out to all members of the family.

  24. Jason Woodward & Melissa Woodward on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Roger was a great guy and coworker and he will be missed. Our sympathies go out to all members of the family.

  25. Keetha cobb on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Mindy
    I’m so sorry for ur loss. U and ur family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  26. Judy Gordy on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    We will miss Roger so much. Lowe’s will not be the same without his smile and sense of humor. Our prayers are with you all.

  27. Tim, Jeremi, Olivia, Cayley and Josh Dougherty on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Roger was always a friendly neighbor.

  28. Sherry Johnson on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Terribly sorry for your loss. May God surround you with the love of your family and friends.

  29. Rhonda Brinkman on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Mindy. So sorry to hear about this. Roger was a great guy and so friendly!

  30. Deena Brown Kroeger on November 16, 2022 at 5:11 pm

    Roger was one of the nicest guys I have ever known! My prayers to you, Mindy and family…cherish all your good memories and the love you shared!

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