Jerry A. Eberhardt
Jerry Alan Eberhardt, 87, of Quincy, IL, passed away peacefully on Saturday, December 14, 2024, surrounded by his loving family at University Hospital in Columbia, MO. He was born on October 18, 1937, in Dixon, Illinois, to Archie and Sarah “Sally” Eberhardt.
On April 23, 1960, Jerry married the love of his life, Anita Stupasky, beginning a 64-year journey filled with love, faith, and happiness. They were blessed with a beautiful life, raising five children and cherishing their 14 grandchildren and 18 great-grandchildren.
Faith and service were cornerstones of Jerry’s life. His involvement in programs such as: Marriage Encounter, Cursillo, TEC, the National Catholic Youth Conference, and Catholic Heart Work Camp reflected his deep commitment to uplifting others. While at Catholic Heart Work Camp he went cliff jumping in his late 70’s even though he could barely swim. That is just how much faith he had. Of all these, the Teens Encounter Christ (TEC) program held a special place in his heart. Jerry made his first TEC weekend (#36) in 1977, a transformative experience that sparked a lifelong passion. Over the years, he participated in more than 50 TEC weekends, often saying, “It keeps me young.” As a dedicated board member for much of his TEC journey, Jerry found great joy in helping others grow in their faith.
Jerry had a deep love for nature, often spending time watching birds flock to the feeders in his yard—despite his playful rivalry with the ever-persistent squirrels. He was an avid golfer, enjoying rounds with friends, his sons-in-law, and grandsons. Throughout their marriage, he and Anita shared a love for both golf and bowling, creating countless memories together. Above all, Jerry was a devoted family man. One of his greatest joys was supporting his grandchildren’s athletic endeavors, whether at home or far away. His presence at their games and events was a testament to his unwavering love and pride in his family.
In addition to his faith and family, Jerry was passionate about serving others. He volunteered extensively at Blessing Hospital, where his dedication earned him the prestigious “Volunteer of the Year” award. Jerry will be remembered for his quick wit, servant’s heart, and boundless energy for the people and causes he loved. He leaves behind a legacy of faith, family, and service that will continue to inspire all who knew him.
He is survived by his wife, Anita, their five children, David (Patricia) Eberhardt, Lynn (Dave) Hummel, Pam (Paul) Havermale, Wendy (Steve) Venvertloh, Maria (Shawn) Sparrow. 14 grandchildren, Jason Eberhardt, Samantha (Justin) Casey, Elizabeth (Matt) Bailey, Gregory (Katie) Havermale, Michael (Samantha) Hummel, Matthew (Lauren) Havermale, Zachary (Shannon) Venvertloh, Andrew (Chloe Arnsman) Hummel, Ethan Venvertloh, Stephanie (Reed) Plunkett, Carter Venvertloh, Stella Sparrow and Palmer Sparrow. Bonus family Karen, Genna and Yana Torres and 18 great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his sisters, Sally Rock and Patricia Brunier, many sisters-in-law, brothers-in-law, nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his grandson, Bradley Havermale, his parents, his younger brother, Bill Eberhardt, brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Thursday, December 19, 2024 at 10 am at St. Peter Catholic Church. Visitation will take place on Wednesday, December 18, 2024, from 4-7 pm at St. Peter Catholic Church, 2600 Maine Street, Quincy, IL, and Thursday morning 9:30 -10 am at St. Peter Church. Interment will be at St. Anthony Cemetery and a luncheon following at St. Anthony Catholic Church Hall at 2223 St. Anthony Rd in Quincy, IL. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the TEC program or Catholic Heart Work Camp which were both close to Jerry’s heart. The Duker & Haugh Funeral Home is in charge of the arrangements.
Kent and I are thinking about all of you during this time . Jerry never knew a stranger, He was always so friendly and energetic!! He will be greatly missed. May God and your memories comfort you. 🙏🫂❤️
A great classmate of mine, QHS 1956!
Much sympathy to family and friends.
Rest in Peace
Hugs to the family
What an incredibly generous man who loved serving others, especially others. May Jerry rest in peace and Anita and the family be comforted in knowing what a difference he made in the lives of so many.
Jerry was a kind man. He will certainly be missed.
Got to know Jerry and Anita many years ago through the Knights of Columbus. Jerry was always there with a smile followed by a friendly snarky comment about me. While timing may not allow us to be there physically, know that our hearts are with you. We know that Jerry will truly be missed. He won’t be forgotten.
Ron and Melody Clark
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I am so sorry. Uncle Jerry was a good man. He always had a smile on his face and love in his heart. I will miss him. Tina Stupasky
Anita,
I actually cried when I saw the notice on Muddy River. We just visited at Church and I mentioned to Mary that he was so energetic and full of life. I hope to get by for the visitation, health providing. If not I will visit with you at Church soon. My heart is with you. God Bless.
Mike & Mary
Jack and I certainly enjoyed Jerry as a neighbor and friend for so many years – you are in our thoughts
I met Jerry & Anita through our daughter’s close friendship & more closely through the church of Saint Peter. Jerry always had a smile on his face, an amazing gate and welcoming attitude. He and Anita have contributed so much to the growth and well-being of this entire community. They are a great example for all young people to look up to. He will be missed. My prayers go out to Anita, Maria and the entire family. May our Heavenly Father wrap his arms around them, granting them strength, comfort, and peace. May he welcome Jerry to the home he has prepared for us, where we will hopefully someday meet again.