Debbra Sue (Hessing) Dabney
Debbra Sue (Hessing) Dabney age 59, of Chatham, IL died Tuesday, October 1, 2024 in her home surrounded by her family. She was born November 11, 1964 in Quincy, Illinois a daughter of Bernard F. and Jane (Abel) Hessing.
She married Gregory C. Dabney on June 1, 1985, in Quincy, Illinois and he survives. Debbra had worked in Quincy at St. Mary’s Hospital, for Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois and most recently at St. John’s Hospital in Springfield, Illinois retiring due to illness.
She was a 1982 graduate of Quincy Notre Dame High School and Gem City College of Cosmetology. Debbra was an avid collector of Fenton glassware. She adored her grandchildren and cherished the time spent with them. She enjoyed spending time researching her family’s genealogy.
In addition to her husband Gregory, survivors also include her mom Jane K (Abel) Hessing of Quincy, Illinois. Her children, Brendon G, Dabney (Katelyn, Hensley), Ryan, T Dabney (Courtney, Ayden), and Logan M Dabney, all of Quincy, IL.
A sister Kim M. Hessing of Quincy, IL.
Her grandchildren, Corbin (Jaxtyn) Dabney of Colchester, IL, Cashton Bainter of Macomb, IL; Quinn Dabney of Quincy, IL, Jonah Dabney, Samuel Dabney, Elliott Dabney, all of Quincy. One aunt Joan K. Schullian.
She was preceded in death by her father, her uncle William E. Abel. Paternal grandparents, Frances (Dieker) and Frank A. Hessing, maternal grandparents, Alice (Blickhan) and Ralph H. Abel and an uncle, Edward J. Schullian.
Family and Friends are invited to services on Friday, October 11, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. in the Chapel at Calvary Cemetery, Quincy. Interment will follow in Calvary Cemetery. Memorials are suggested to the Quincy Notre Dame High School or to the American Cancer Society. Service arrangements are in the care of Duker and Haugh Funeral Home. Messages may be shared online at www.dukerandhaugh.com
Jane and family, so sad to read of Deb’s passing. I remember her from back when jane and Iworked together at SMH. Debbie was about 15 and then went on to work with her also at SMH. May God be with you all at this time and cherish memories.
Deb was the strongest woman I have ever known. She continued to laugh even though she was in the fight of her life many times. Hugs and prayers to the Dabney family.
Debi’s strength over the last few years was more than I had ever seen. Her family was everything and I know she fought for them. I was so happy that I was able to see the family and spend time with you all on Saturday. Ad I am just getting back to work after a long medical leave I will miss the service this Friday but will be thinking of you all and have you my prayers. There were times we were not in contact but Debi was a truly good friend when we were.
Greg so sorry to hear of your loss. Peace to you and your family
Greg, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dear Jane and family, my heart goes out to all of you. May her memories and the comfort of God’s love fill your heart and give you strength during the coming days. With deepest sympathy, your friend Mary
Greg: Wow! I can’t imagine what you’re going through brother, these things never make since. We don’t get to know why? Sorrowful blessings to you and your Whole family. Contact me anytime.
Greg, Jane, and Kim, and the Dabney boys,
My sympathy to your families.
Greg really sad to hear of this struggle. I pray for peace on your family.
We are remembering Debbra as she walked the halls of St. Mary Hospital leaving her footprints on the St. Mary Hospital legacy.
The St. Mary Hospital community extends our deepest sympathy to Debbra’s family, friends and co-workers.
Friends of St. Mary Hospital
Jane, I am so sorry to hear of Deb’s passing. Prayers for peace and comfort during this difficult time!
So sorry to hear of the passing of Deb. Thoughts and prayers to the family.
Deb and I talked alot about our grand children.She was a wonderful friend .She fought a long hard battle with this cancer and was always so strong and hopeful..She loved her grandbabies so much .I will miss our talks ….God Bless you Deb….